Cancun Big Brother: 2.april.2004

Finished my trip in Southamerica and now arrived in Northamerica. Mexico. My way of travel will change a little bit. No backpacker place anymore....

Cancun is a radical change for my travel. First of all I will have a hotel room for me alone. Here I don t really feel in Mexico because there are more tourists than inhabitants. Some of the things I try to avoid normally. Second thing I will meet people I allready know. That kind of thing didn t happend during 3 months. I m realy happy to see them again.

Trujillo - Lima - Miami - Cancun flight. I arrived by plane going from Trujillo to Lima to Miami to Cancun. If they could be more undirect plane maybe I will had it. After a long time travelling by bus going back to the international plane procedure seems going back to modern civilisation. And thats mean, complicated for nothing. I get confronted to the slow burocratie rules of the "Airport Control System". Lines of stressed tourists, lines of luggages waiting to be examinated. I first had to answer some questions: Why do I want to get to Miami ? Well I don t want, it s just that there is no direct fly to Cancun. Okay how long will I stay there? One hour or two, the time it takes to change from one plane to the other. And the serie of questions about drugs, illegal merchandise continue. I finish to answered the stupid questions, of course I m not a terrorist...blablabla and walk to the next line. Then one guy is coming and scream my name. I go out of the line and follow him to my backpack that I gave before. Now I had to open it. Not just a pocket but all the pockets. And a backpack has a lot everywhere. When I think that I took 20 minutes to put all my stuff properly. Naturally they find nothing. The 3 coca leaves I had were in my little bag and they didn t look at it. This security system is just preventive "Bullshit". Sorry for that ! Thats our time. The more modern we are the more stupid the rules we invent. We invent rules again rules we already invented. We work again the consequences to our modernism. But in fact when I get out of all this system I could feel how bound we are to our community. Something that doesn t exist in undevelopped area. What is better ?
Well I get back in the line, at my place and finally arrived to the check-in-office. Here I get informed that the plane will be two hours late. That s mean I will not have my flight from Miami to Cancun in time...They checked everything and book my new plane from Miami to Cancun.
Okay...I m inside the airport, waiting for my flight and going again in a security system. The one scanner with the magic power to look into your bag without open it. And they found out that I had a mini cutter. So mini that if I wanted to kill a mosquito I couldn t manage that. I gave it and told them that their systems have a big failure. I mean when I will get into the plane we will have plastic knife but metal fourch which could easely transpers the neck of a pilot. They look at me terrified. If I would have say that in Miami I will now write from the jail. Hehehehe. But in fact in the plane I had the metal fourch.

Welcome in Cancun.
I arrived there with thousand of United States Of America Inhabitants. The difference with Miami was unexistent if you look at the people because Cancun is a kind of USA colonie. Now I will consacre time for my family. The next days they arrived one after the other. First Patrick my big brother with his future wife Daniela coming from LA. Then my Mom and my sister Karina coming from France. And finally my Alys, my ex-girlfriend and my new girlfriend (Beatles: LOVE LOVE LOVE...) I like her so much ! (Freds get red).
The next days my lifestyle changed totaly. Patrick and Daniela had everything organized. They already knew what we can do and planed the next days for his mariage a la perfection. If I had to get married I will be the opposite. Just chaotic for that kind of stuff.
They managed to bring 40 people here and organized everything to satisfied all the people. And believe me it is stress to do. But they did it. Perfect food, perfect restaurants, perfect hotels, perfect bars, perfect people, perfect transportation. Well my big brother ;-)

We went out a lot of time to restaurants, meet the friends and family of Daniela coming from Germany to USA and Venezuela. I really like this kind of meeting where everybody switch from one language to the other. I meet people who will became part of my new family. Very happy to see also my sister and my brother in the same time. That s not happened so often. But this time we were all in the same country, unbelieveble. The place where we went, were all approved by Patrick and Dani. One night we went in this restaurant a la James Bond. Beautifull decoration, open terasse to the Lagoon. Kermit Jr. realy liked it. The food was as exellent. I eat gambas (big shrimps) in a secret ensorceling sauce. The drinks are in big generous glasses. I met Nathalie the wife of Dany s brother. She is great ! A Colombian girl full of energie and allways a smile left. The time came and I went to catch my Alys in the airport. Kermit Jr. was exited. Alys will join me for the wedding and then will travel few weeks with me arround Mexico. This girl has two face, the shy and the funny one. Shy with the people she don t know and when she get the feeling of the people she change and is a very happy girl, enjoying all the little things that people will never catch. She get the sensibility of a cat and the distance that this animals can have with people they don t trust.


1, april 2004 LA PINATA ! The fiesta begun on the first of April, when we get in this nice restaurant "Hacienda El Martero" a replica of one Hacienda that exists somewhere in Mexico. Here Patrick and Dany order a big table for 40 peoples. But first the traditionnal Pinata. A star with a lot of colors suspended and moved in front of the future married. This two one bounded their eyes and have to hit the pinata until it breaks.Good ambiance, very funny...Then the 3 mariachis played music until we have few drinks. Marguaritas of all kind of taste with some nachos and spicy sauces. We get to the tables and had a very good dinner. I set close to King Patrick and Queen Dany. We had good time. The night ended and each one get back to his hotel. Most of the people were in one of the big resort in the hostel part of Cancun. My mother rented a studio with Karina close to the Lagoon and I go back to my hotel with Alys in the Cancun Center, a little cute typical mexican hotel (hamac, palms and quite).

Outside in the nightlife of Cancun the young american girls and boys where going out in one of the disco or bar. I went in one of them one night. And here you find a bunge of drunked young people. The guys (70% of the people) are drinking one glass after the other. They dance close to the girls, very close. I feel in the MTV video clips here. The girls are as drunk as the boys and get in a big delirium. One in front of me just took her tshirt to exhibite her tits (if you want the link of the pic/movie - send me a mail - U see U believe me). I became involved in this "Spring break" ambiance for an hour. This is the other side of America. It s a kind of funny the picture of this country USA. On the one side they want to show that they are the best country in the world, acting always for the good and against the evil. On the other side this pseudo puritan image is filled with contradiction. Okay here in Cancun is the drink and be drunked parties of this 18 years old americans. In USA its say don t drink until 21. I don t know so much from USA but what I know seams contradictory. Have to visit it to understand better this politic and mentality . Maybie this young people just didn t want to think about what there where doing, just get a party, making crazy things and escape in this nightlife...

Well but Cancun is at first a Hollidays city. From the US its just a step to the beautifull beach with the white sand and the deep blue water. Its the most incredible sea color I ever seen. I was in the big hotel of my brother as I saw it for the first time. And I was realy fascinated by the color. The swimming-pool seems to be grey in comparison to the water. The hotels are one biger than the other, and propose everything from food to massage. The one of my brother was building with his own jungle. Everywhere plants go down from the different floors. I will not speak about the breakfast buffet who was a tentation. Eggs prepared in front of you how you want, all kind of fruits, pancakes with chocolate or white to brown honey, croissant....and and and....I couldn t resist this tentation. So good.

What I could feel during all the Cancun time was the difference between me and the other. People are stressed with some little problem that really means nothing. Some other are bound with things that are not so important. Living with my backpack this last month bring me out of the system. Seeing and living the present are my first rules. All the future is uncertain and all the past is an experience for the present not a heavy ball attached to the foot. The watch is not controling me, the only moment I need it is when I want to take a bus. In the daylie life at home we all are controled by this little thing, the watch, 2 or 3 sticks that move in a circle, pointing of some numbers. This numbers decide when we have to do something, when we are late, when we are early. In my new life, that means nothing if its too late for doing something, I do it never or I do it tomorow. Just try to live 1 month with no planing, no real goal, no radio, no tv, no newspaper.

----------------------- Imagine now that you are in an environment you don t know. All what you know is not important. Important is how you react in front of an unknow situation, unknow people...and also unknow food (But thats an other story "Lorenzus bacterius"....). Well I should stop to think and go back to Cancun...So what I want to say is that I already changed. Can t explained really how, why and if its good or not. Deep in me something happend and now I get back in the modern civilisation where confort is more important than life, real real life. I wish my trip will never finish. I wish all of you could live what I m living. I wish you will know all my friends. I wish that you find out for you what is really important in your life. Before you die. Before you regret. Before you miss something.
I m still the same but when I see the people I know I feel that they did not change as I did in just 3 month of travelling.

A lake without fishes look the same as a lake with fishes, but if you look deep in the water you will see the difference. They are just few people who do that. They are just few people who see the fishes. :-)

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