El Calafate 07.february.2004

Me and Camping.... I knew that I will need a tent somewhere, but that it offer you a so good time I didn t expected. Laura, Thommy and Joerg. 3 names without any sens before El Calafate and El Chalten. And know after, I feel rich of they companies. You have some people like that, you meet them and everything is so simple...Life should be always like that...Ehehe and life is funny.

But lets start the story. This is not realy a story about camping or travelling, this is the story of a friendship. Everything begann at the aeroport of El Calafate, I go out of the plane, took my backpack and went to the tourist office...Hmmm. No tourist office...Okay doesn t matter, lets look after a bus to the city center.
You have to know that El Calafate lies in Patagonia, a huge land with a very low population density. Close to the city the Lago Argentina, a blue lake in a desert. When you come with the plane the city looks like a little spot. But the problem is: the aeroport is about 3-5 big kilometers. Well lets say like that: from the aeroport I couldn t see the city... So with my heavy backpack I needed to go with the bus. But: NO BUS. The one I wanted to take was full. And this kind of aeroport don t have a big traffic. Last solution Taxi. Hmmm. 28 pesos? Its okay, but I saw some people waiting like me, I go with a big smile and I just asked them if they wanted to join me to the taxi and share the place and the bill.
And this little thing "going to people" is the point of the story.
We begunn to discuss, went together to the city. Thommy is with Laura. Both are Argentinians, both are sympatic, cool and go for vacation in El Calafate El Chalten and Ushuaia. They live in Buenos Aires. Together we took information to go the next day to El Chalten a big national park (see El Chalten Fitz Roy). Without constrain we shared everything. We went together to the camp. Thommy was the cooker, he just cooks all the next day. Laura and Thommy became in the next day good friends, sometimes parents! Heehe when I was speaking with other people, I could heard: Fred eating is ready.... Its funny to have parent younger than me. I could write so much about them but I just want to tell you the important thing of this time... Be generous to other. I don t mean give money or buy something for somebody you don t know. But be generous to other people, go a give a smile, a help or a sign... Forget the individualism of europeen culture. Share what you can and it will return. Of course they are some people you can trust and other not, but the thing is that if all the people will be Thommies or Lauras the life will be so much better.
When I returned to El Calafate I went in a hostel and the second days some Argentiniens and Spanish guys came in the room. 2 couples. I say a big Hola, but...Nada. This people just ignore me (sniff sniff). Hmm Bad for them. They realy just Ignore me, and it is hard to do when you share a room with 6 peoples. Its not a loft. Its a stupid behaviour but I m not angry with them. Not starting a conversation is maybie missing a good time with somebody you don t know. They were speaking and speaking, then they open the window ( close to 5 degrees outside) but didn t even think about asking me if it is okay. It was 1.00 a.m. and they speak and speak. Then they decided to sleep and turn of the light. I was in my bed writing my dayly but they didn t care. I realy laught about this. (PPPPOOOR Fred ;-)
The next day, I wake up early. One of them wake up also. Buenos Dias ! says the Fred. But Nada. I beginn to think. I m the invisible man. But I could see myself so they could see me too. HMMMMM. I took my breakfast and turn the PC on.....and then. OUUUU ;-O then they saw that I was able to BURN A CD. So they "need" me. At this time the invisible potion had no effects, they saw me, tried to find a way to get a contact. But it was difficult not to be ridiculous....ignore somebody and then that...AHhhhhahaha. I let them do, and so this guy tried to get want he want. Ho hello, blablablablablabla....I laught realy. And that made him feel so stupid. He had a small talk and then came to the question. If I could burn a CD for him. Hmmm....I had pleasure to let some second flow before I answered. Yes I will do that for him but before he have to tell me why they behave so stupid. He told me he though I was american and he could not speak so good english. I smilled because he tell me that in english (ironie du sort). I told him that for a Buenos Dias you don t need any english. Okay give me your CD my "friend", I take everything easy but please next time don t avoid and ignore other people, its not bad for them its bad for you.

That the big difference beetwen some people. The one share so much that everything is simple, the time you spend with them is great a easy. You give them other things and share without waiting anything. You have a lot of opportunity to do some stuff without beeing bound. Some other have a kind of fear, fear to lose time, fear to lose something they have, but in reality they lose much more. I know it sound like I will know everything....I don t pretend that. (But in fact I know everything...just kidding)
See the time I spend with people I didn t know a week before. I had that experience in Brazil with Frank. And know with Laura and Thommy.. Men they take care of me as I m their kid. We had great time. Sitting arround the fire and singing argentinian song, climbing and hiking to the beautifull El Chalten national park, swimming in a cold lake in front of a 3441m high Fitw Roy peak (ohhh my balls..grrrr). Eating an over Millenia mini-iceberg. Meeting other people and sharing the sweet "dolca de leitche" (like a caramel cream) wich is a kind of little LUX when you are in a place far away from human presence. A great time....
Joerg. Joerg is my brother. Like Frank. A spirit brother. I m a guy, I - do - what - I - want! They are the same. They don t say what they will once do and never do it. They just do it (sounds like a NIKE advertising). That s the kind of authentic people, no fear for the unknow, no fear of contact. I just love this kind of presence. Joerg and me meet few minutes during a conversation in the camping. And soon we were the nightmare of the camping colonnie. We dance in the middle of the night the HOUUGA HOUUGA dance arround my firelamp, we finished the "8 Irmanos" bottle (I don t drink so much alcool, but this is a sweet sweet likor and in this amazing environment of the park, its a pleasure and additionaly you don t feel the cold of the night with that.). We make Hipe Hopi (hip hop in brazilian), and had realy funny times. With spirit brother you never get bored. (okay I never get bored..) but with Giorgo the time was great. And the best ist, my Mam Laura (relinda) and Thommy (Tomatoe) adopted him...
I hope you had the same experience somewhere. See you soon Mam Dad and Irmano....ehehe.

Everything as a end and so I left El Calafate and my new friends...Thx for the good time.Ups I forget to speak about camping...!?*$#?

Giorgo "spirit-Irmano" Laura "relinda" Gollum Thommy "tomatoe"
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